Wellington

Cuba Street's cafés, shops and bars make an easy starting area for a short outing. At its upper end, Thistle Hall's community gallery gives you a specific place to browse art and talk about what catches your eye. A gallery visit and a scheduled activity are different plans: check the current programme if you want to take part. Keep the rest of the afternoon open for coffee rather than trying to fit in every nearby stop.

For a music-led evening, explore the listings at Valhalla in Te Aro. Its live-music focus gives you a reason to swap tracks and choose an artist together. Agree on whether to meet before or after the set, and read the event's entry and age conditions. Check the date and venue in the individual announcement when making your plan.

The Roxy Cinema in Miramar combines an art deco cinema setting with a restaurant and bar. Treat the journey from the central city as part of the plan rather than assuming it is the next stop on a Cuba Street walk. Choose the film and session together, check any language or subtitle details, and allow time for a meal or conversation separately from the screening.